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In a world of limited good

In a world of limited good
November 12, 2017 WWS

Hina[1] had given birth to a baby boy, the first boy in her husband’s family. Her mother-in-law put dark eyeliner all around his young eyes, making him look rather odd, to my eyes. And they dressed him in girl’s clothes. After there had been a day of visitors, congratulating the family on this new arrival, the baby was unsettled and fretful so they burned chillis in the house.

Bushra’s family had bought a new car. When some people came wanting to buy the car the family declined to sell it. The next time they took the car out it was involved in an accident, and written off. They said that the people wanting to buy it had put the evil eye on it.

Amina’s brother had a good job in the Gulf and was sending money home, so that the family began to build a new solid family home. Amina and her mother went to the local imam and paid him to write several verses of the Qur’an on small pieces of paper that they then folded and cemented into the walls of their new home.

Hina, Bushra, Amina and their families conceive of a world of limited good. This is probably not a conscious belief, but an underlying worldview. Limited good is based on the idea that there is a finite amount of good, material and otherwise, to go around in the world, and it has already been distributed. When someone’s life improves, when they gain a son or a car or a new home, it means someone else has less. What has been gained comes at the expense of someone else and is to their loss.

To upset the balance by acquiring more, receiving extra honour or attention, is conceived to threaten the equilibrium of the community. For those who acquire the addition they need to protect what they have gained. For those who fear they could lose when someone else gains they may take actions to restore the balance.

One of the ways in which this happens is using the evil eye, closely linked to envy. Envy is premised on ideas of limited good. If there is only so much good to be shared, and someone stands out through their achievements and gains, it is assumed that they have gained at the expense of another, or of the community.

It has been suggested that there are seven common features of the belief of the evil eye:

  1. power emanates from the eye (or mouth) and strikes some object or person;
  2. the stricken object is of value, and its destruction or injury is sudden;
  3. the one casting the evil eye may not know he has the power;
  4. the one affected may not be able to identify the source of the power;
  5. the evil eye can be deflected or its effects modified or cured by particular devices, rituals and symbols;
  6. the belief helps to explain or rationalize sickness, misfortune, or loss of possessions such as animals or crops; and
  7. in at least some functioning of the belief everywhere, envy is a factor.[2]

Women like Hina, Bushra and Amina must negotiate this world of perceived limited good every day. They must protect their families, their children, themselves, their possessions, their reputation from the actions of others. They use every means at their disposal to protect what they have. Baby boys are dressed as little girls, children made to look unattractive in order to protect them from the envy of another. Verses of the Qur’an are worn for protection or placed in walls or hung in cars to ward off intentional or unintentional evil eye. Blue beads or Fatima’s hand are displayed for protection.

On an Islamic teaching site a long list of symptoms of the evil eye are given: ‘Primary symptoms of evil eye are feelings of physical and/or emotional tiredness, unexplained bad luck or un-favorable incidences and illness. It is thought to cause drowsiness, drooping eyelids, listlessness, fatigue, weariness, lack of concentration, restlessness, discomfort, cramps, convulsions, headaches, hiccoughs, clumsiness, stomachaches, dry coughs, diarrhea, itching, hair loss, dry skin vomiting, the drying up of the milk of nursing mothers and livestock, problems with the blood and eyesight, impairment of sexual activity, impotence, sterility, disorders in menstruation, problems in pregnancy and childbirth, deficient breast milk, mastitis, and among babies and young children, incessant crying and fretting, a baby’s refusal to suckle or drink milk and other symptoms include lack of rain, the drying up of wells, the withering of fruit, sudden loss to business, and so on[3].’ A range of cures are offered, including reciting verses from the Qur’an and wiping one’s hands over the body afterwards, reciting verses over olive oil and wiping the body with the oil, or reciting over water and then washing the body with water. Mashallah is also used as a protection against envy and the evil eye.

In a recent conversation someone was expressing bewilderment that educated women in the country where she works accepted that it was the evil eye that had made them sick. Exhaustion, a virus, bacteria and other things were not being acknowledged and this friend was bewildered. How do we respond to our Muslim friends who see their troubles as a result of envy, as they negotiate everyday life in a world of limited good?

Another colleague responded that the issue was not so much what had caused the trouble but why. Why had that person succumbed to the virus they picked up at the wedding? Why had their car been in the accident when there are hundreds of other cars on the road? Why had the baby been cranky and fretful after so many visitors?

We can quickly dismiss our friends’ reactions and responses to the challenges of their lives interpreted through a worldview of limited good. Their desire to negotiate the inequalities of the world, the reality of the spiritual and material interacting in all of life and a longing for meaning in their human experiences calls for what Paul Heibert has described as a holistic theology: ‘a theology of God in human history: in the affairs of nations, of peoples and of individuals. This must include a theology of divine guidance, provision and healing; of ancestors, spirits and invisible powers of this world; and of suffering, misfortune and death[4].’

Our interactions have as their starting point our relationship with an extravagantly generous God who desires to bless. As his children we are not subject to a world of limited good, and as his ambassadors we are called to be a blessing.

Scripture has a number of blessings that we might consider learning and using in our conversations. The friend expressing bewilderment did note that many of the greetings in the language of her country were not just social politeness, they included ideas of protective power. As we note the greetings and social exchanges of our community, we can explore what blessings we may offer from the God of unlimited good. (Share what you learn with us here.)

 

 

[1] Names have been changed

[2] Graves Christina, Limited Good, Envy, the Evil Eye and Bible Translation. http://www.gial.edu/documents/gialens/Vol8-1/Graves_Limitedgood.pdf n.d. Accessed 12.11.2017

[3] http://islamicexorcism.com/evil-eye/

[4] Heibert, Paul. The Flow of the Excluded Middle. Missiology, American Society of Missiology, 10: 35, 1982

Images:

https://dawaterohaniat.blogspot.com.au/2013/05/sacred-healing-bowls.html

http://www.biddingtons.com/content/expertamulet.html

 

© When Women Speak … November 2017

CH spent nearly three decades in South Asia and the Middle East working in education, community development and the Church, and was part of Interserve’s International Leadership for nine years. Her research has included women’s activism and social change in South Asia, violence against women and missiology. She is currently focussed on developing new streams of ministry among women who live under Islam and enabling women academics and practitioners to shape missiology and mission practice. She holds a PhD in Gender Studies (Australian National University).

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